Creating Space - Saying Yes To Saying No
Wednesday, January 25, 2012 at 11:28AM 
Genevieve and I had the great pleasure of spending time with Debra Baida, owner of SF based business Liberated Spaces. Deb is a professional organizer but also so much more. Her goal is to help her clients remove any obstacle, physical or emotional, that is hindering them from living a more conscious life. She is right up our alley! Deb's an incredible woman and I am so excited to establish a new friendship that will enhance our business, Creating Space and my own personal growth. Yay for new friendships and connections!
We had many great discussions yesterday but one that really stayed with me all day was about the power of no. Using the word "no" consciously and positively is one of the ways that you can control the rhythm and flavor of your personal and professional life especially when your universe seems offbeat. Saying no just takes a some conscious thinking, reflecting, confidence and forgiveness.
If someone offers you a new project, take time to really assess the time, effort and return. Maybe the monetary return is not great but will it enhance your portfolio? It is a friendship that you really wish to establish?
What does your "gut" say? If it doesn't feel right, then why? Is this feeling based on fear or does it really not fit.
How does this project or decision fit in the grand scheme of things? Does it relate to the life you are trying to lead or is it completely off course?
Give yourself ample time to think about it. Take a walk, ask for 24 hours to decide and discuss with a mentor or friend that understands your larger goals. Then proceed with confidence and kindness, knowing that you are following a well thought out, well loved path. There will be plenty of times to say yes.